I know, it's been a long time since I updated my blog. But I guess that's all because of my business dealing with my studies, classes, assignments and most of my free times will be spent with my friends instead of writing for my blog.
So, today I want to write something to ease the pain that I am suffering right now.
The value of friendship, and how meaningful it is, until you cannot even accept the goodbyes.
We all know that it is the tradition of life. Friends come to you, and at times they'll leave to pursue each other's dream. We can still keep in contact though with them. But what we cannot gain back is all the good times spent together unless we are in the same place and can easily meet up again. I guess this come and go tradition of life is too hard to accept and even I can spend weeks of crying when I miss my friends. But, even when life is cruel enough to take our friends from us, I will always keep in my mind that sacrificing today for tomorrow is better than to be stuck in the past. Who knows that in the future, we will meet again.
For each and every separations and goodbyes that I experienced, I will try hard not to cry and I guess you guys do it too. But no matter how hard we try, eyes can never lie. Eyes never lie. Even if you try not to burst into tears, it will show the sparkle of tears that you keep to yourself inside of you. Others realise that, but they just won't tell. To me, I'll try to not cry in front of those whom I'll be saying goodbye at because I don't want them to worry much about how I will miss them. But, anything you do to control yourself, it is good to let down the tears from its dam whenever you want to. Try to find someone you can trust to be the shoulder for you to cry on or if you like to be alone and let your feeling out all alone, it's okay, as long as you don't keep the tears for too long to avoid stress.
We all had been through so many goodbyes from primary to secondary until university. Whatever that you feel, be it sad or happy, we have to accept the destiny that has been destined to us. No matter how hard it is to accept the goodbye, be positive that it is for the best of their future, and also our future. How long can we expect for us to be together? Even twins can be separated from each other, and it's same with us.
What we can do is, give thanks to God for giving us the experience to meet people that we really love, until it's so hard to leave them.
I am writing this just to ease my pain after the goodbye that I had been through recently. And I hope when you guys are reading this, it will ease the pain that you guys are also having.
You know, our shadow is always with us. Too bad it cannot help us with our sorrow. That's why we need friends.
A friend of mine said, that we can't keep them longer since there is always hello and goodbye. But for, me we can. Keep them inside our memories. Treasure them. Sweet memories never fade from our memories, and that what friends gave us, sweet memories. So, keep on making friends, and when it's time to leave, treasure them and never lose contact.
I guess that is all from me. Love y'alls...
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